Thursday, March 4, 2010

Picture Perfect

Dearest Sammie Girl,

In light of last week's lengthy post, I've decided to let the pictures of the last week do the talking.

We got your professional pictures in:

























We also went to the beach to visit some dear friends of ours:























...and we celebrated Nonni's birthday (last Friday) and Grandma Max's birthday (this past Tuesday), but neither of those events yielded pictures :(

Loving you tons,
your mommy

Thursday, February 25, 2010

9 Months: The Super Long Wild Thing Edition

Dearest Sammie Girl,

Last Sunday, you turned nine months old. Eek! You’re three quarters of the way to a year now—where has the time gone? Part of me can still remember the first few days of meeting you in the hospital and bringing you home and yet the other part of me can’t recall that you ever looked like anything but the happy and bubbly little pre-toddler that you are today. That’s right. Move over, pre-teenage angst. It’s the pre-toddler months that are all the rage amongst the gymboree set these days.

Truthfully, as quickly as the time’s gone by, I wouldn’t have believed that we really have lived through these past nine months if it weren’t for the weekly Thursday letters I’ve been writing of your progress. This past weekend, Nonni showed me the baby book she had lovingly filled out during the first few years of my life. I was a little embarrassed to tell her that I hadn’t even STARTED on your baby book, because there just hasn’t been the time (although I plan on getting several scrapbooking days scheduled in during next month’s spring break. Hopefully). I guess this blog has proven to be the next best thing. I may not have every last breakthrough and detail down in a purty little book with frolicking bunnies on the cover, but at least I’ve got this blog, where I can look back to this past July and see just how much you weighed and what you were up to when we went to Disneyland.

But let’s forget about the past for a second and focus on where you are right now. Well, technically, right now you should be just starting to wake up in your crib and babbling on about life’s complexities while your father keeps his eyes on the baby monitor as he desperately tries to cling on to a few more minutes of sleep. I, on the other hand, am two miles away in my classroom at school, blissfully typing away as I enjoy my empty room during the last foggy day schedule for the 2009-2010 school year.

It’s amazing what can change and happen in the life of a nine month old in the course of a week. In a mere seven days, you’ve: perfected rolling over and changing direction, mastered raising your hands on cue to “How big are you?,” gone on a whirlwind trip to the nearby mountains to see your very first snowfall, met up with all of the babies in the Willis clan, turned nine months, gotten over your first nasty cold, gone to the pediatrician, learned the joys of sleeping on your tummy and had the latest rounds of professional pictures taken.

If you need to stop for a minute because your head is spinning, feel free. It was one of those merry-go-round weeks, after all.

Let’s take this one step at a time.

The rolling over to get where you want to go thing. You’ve been doing it for a mere two weeks, and with each day that passes you get a little faster and more adept at it. Lately, you’ve perfected the art of rolling over by adding to it a new skill that I like to call the Lazy Susan. Simply put, when you want to change direction, you stick your belly out and, using your hands, spin your body in a circle.

The “How Big Are You” thing was learned last Saturday and your father and I haven’t stopped laughing ever since. You spent the night with Nonni and Poppa on Friday night, and by the time you came back home on Saturday afternoon, you were raising your hands in the air and squealing with glee. Your Nonni swears she just did it with you a couple of times, but something must’ve clicked because anytime* we ask “How Big Are You?” you obligingly raise your hands to the heavens and wait for the choruses of “SOOOO big!” while your father and I look at each other and bust a gut. The asterisk* after the word “anytime” above is a legal disclaimer, because you do not perform this trick in front of larger crowds or when food’s around.

I tried to get a picture of it WITH you smiling, but all I ended up with was this:


The Shaver trip thing was a last minute idea of your father’s. Basically it went something like this:

Daddy: Want to go to Shaver for pizza?
Mommy: Really? It’s 5:15 already—won’t it be dark?
Daddy: Nah, we should be ok.
Mommy: Want to invite Beth and Tom?
Daddy: Sure, that sounds like fun. I’ll go hop in the shower.
*insert sound effects here of mommy & daddy racing around the house, making phone calls and getting you ready for a quick trip to the snow and hopping in the car*

Two hours later, we made it up the hill, all the while singing our way up the four lane road to keep a certain cranky baby quiet. Then it started snowing. Which is cool for all of a minute until you realize that the car doesn’t have snow chains and no one had packed to spend the night should we get snowed in. Fast forward another hour, and the four of us had devoured our pizza (you noshed on Cherrios), taken pictures of you in the falling snow (note to self: bring a jacket & hat anytime you take a baby to the snow—I lost mom points there), and ran back to the car in an effort to try to make it back down the mountain before the snow got much deeper and we were stuck on the side of the road for all of eternity. In the end, we made it back to town safely, trading in our crackling voices singing for an i-phone with a miraculous application for babies that kept you entertained while I sat there amazed at your insane fine-motor skills (seriously, you were putting your finger to the screen and opening and closing the barn doors on that phone like a 2 year old).

At least we got some good pictures out of it:







...I managed to snap this one just before we got into the car:


The next day, you turned nine months old and we skipped church (on account of your runny nose, more on that later). Then came the Willis Baby Thing. We headed over on a much safer trip to Clovis to celebrate Great-Grandma and Grandpa Willis’ 60th anniversary. It’s insane how quickly a family can grow when four babies are born in the span of nine months. You spent the good part of the first hour sitting on the floor with your cousin Kylie and watching in amazement as she took YOUR toys and *gasp* played with them. Hmmm…maybe it’s time to work on your social skills a little. I realize you’re too young to understand the concept of sharing, but maybe we can work on pretending that you know how to share when large masses of family are around. The second half of the event was spent with me (and many other people) trying to get you to wave your arms in the air to the cue of “How Big Are You?” As you might have guessed by the earlier asterisk, that didn’t happen. Rather, you waited until all but four people had left before you happily shoved your fists upward and wondered what all of the fuss was about.

Fortunately for all involved, you were over the cold thing. Sunday was the first day that you were feeling back to normal. Prior to that, you were battling a nasty case of runny-nose-itis. It manifested itself shortly after I finished the play a few weeks ago, when, right on schedule, I got sick with a cold (I always get sick right after finishing a show— but, by the time you’re old enough to read this, you probably know that). Unable to keep myself from hugging you tight and kissing your chubby little cheeks, I gave you the gift of your first *real* sickness. Sadly, we spent the next week and a half giving each other our colds, until finally I couldn’t take it anymore: the sight of hearing you breathing heavily through your nose and seeing the snot running out of your nose was breaking my heart (and kind of grossing me out). I called the pediatrician’s office, took the nurse’s advice, and bought you saline drops. That little white bottle of saline spray is worth its weight in gold, because in a matter of minutes your nostril fountain turned off and you were able to breathe through your nose once again.

A few days later came the well-child check up thing. For the first time, I wasn't able to go (I was teaching at the time) so your daddy took you into the pediatrician’s office for visit. Your Nonni tagged along so I could hear the full scoop later on (I love your father, but remembering and reciting back important details is not his gift). This is what we found out: you currently are weighing in at a whopping 21 pounds 2 ounces and have grown a whole inch since our last visit (you’re now 27.5 inches long). We should keep feeding you all of the foods that we have been, but disregard what the doctor-issued feeding chart says regarding juice (Still-the-Best-Pediatrician-in-the-World referred to juice as the gateway drug to soda—*gasp*). Fortunately, we had only been giving you juice twice a week or so. Your fine motor skills are very advanced for your age (hence why you mastered the iphone so quickly) but your gross motor skills are just average (hence why you’re not crawling just yet—even though you’re AAALMOSTthere). Your immune system is also remarkably healthy if you’ve just now received and recovered from your first illness. While most babies your age have teeth by now, it’s not a concern that you’re still all gums so long as you get your first teeth right around the year mark (although STBPITW said that it won’t be that long because she felt your gums and teeth are VERY close to peeping through). The visit culminated in the first round of the H1N1 flu vaccination. Bottom line: you’re healthy and developing at a pace that’s right for you.

I’ll just skip to the next thing without even trying to do a transition sentence because frankly, I have no idea how to transition from a successful pediatrician’s visit to musing about how you’re now doing the sleeping on your tummy thing. Oh, wait. I think I just did write a transition sentence. The former English teacher in me is pleased with myself. Pats on the back aside, as I just mentioned, you’ve discovered the joys of sleeping through the night on your tummy. You’ve always been a sleep on your back kind of a girl (which is what we wanted because of the whole risk factor involved with newborns sleeping on their tummies). Over the past few nights, though, I’ve watched you through your baby monitor—I long ago gave up on trying to tiptoe into your room to watch you sleep because apparently I’m a loud door opener and walker because EVERY time I woke you up. You’ll start off sleeping on your back (as usual), and about the time I go to bed, I look over on the nightstand and see you on the monitor, flipping to your side and then your tummy. Come morning, you’re still on your tummy, looking as content as can be.

It’s a good thing you’re getting all of that good sleep because yesterday your Grandma Max and I schlepped you off to Visalia for the picture thing. It was your turn to get the third round of professional pictures taken…and kid, you’re a pro. The photographer even commented about how you take pictures like an adult: you save your smiles for when the camera comes out. We got pictures of the two of us, pictures of you and Grandma Max, pictures of you with the various blankets people made for you (and yes, Tamara, because I know you’re my ONE faithful reader, we took a picture of her with the blanket you made for her), pictures of you in your Easter dress playing with necklaces, pictures of you in the cute ladybug top, and finally, pictures of you in your red coat and hat standing up and peering over a chair. Hopefully, we got at least one decent picture from each of the major clothing changes because from where I was standing they ALL looked adorable. Which is kind of good, because the last time we took pictures (in October), the photo session ended with you looking like this:



Now that I’ve written a five volume novel in lieu of what was supposed to be a rather quick post, I’m going to sign off.

Loving you tons my little smiley girl!

your mommy.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

PS We Love You

Dear Samantha Joy,

This past Sunday, your father and I set out to do what millions of couples across the country did: go out on a date for Valentine's Day. The downside to millions of couples going out at the same time (aside from the obvious insanely long wait for tables in restaurants) is that finding family members to babysit becomes increasingly difficult as they are going out on dates of their own. So, after mildly panicking last week, I turned to the next best thing: a real live babysitter.

I met Breanna last year when she was in my theatre 1 class, but I really got to know her this year when she was cast, appropriately enough, as Annie. I had heard through the grapevine that she is The World's Most Perfect Babysitter (TWMPB)at her own church, so I crossed my fingers and said a prayer that she'd be available on what is surely the most difficult day of the year to find childcare. Fortunately for all involved, she was...so operation babysitter was on.

As I was the babysitter in demand at my church growing up, I knew a thing or two to do to keep TWMPB happy, so therefore the first step of Operation Babysitter was to make sure that our pantry was full of yummy snacks (Cheez-Its and Oreos) and that our house was in relatively decent condition.

The second step of Operation Babysitter was to compose a detailed contact list and Sammie information sheet (about feeding, sleeping, etc) so that she would have something to refer to throughout the night and keep you a relatively happy camper, as well as writing up how to work our overly complicated TV set up to keep TWMPB a happy camper, as well. An hour later, I was moving on to step three: trying desperately to install our printer and get it synched with my laptop. Step four came an hour later: cursing at the machine and threatening to throw the printer out the window as I gave up on the aforementioned list and settled for a much-less pretty scrap of paper with the bare minimum of necessary contact information.

Step five was making sure that you had had a decent naptime (that deserved a half of a check because the naptime came far too late and was a little too short for both of our liking). Step six was getting food ready to go so that TWMPB could feed you as we left and thus become your BFF in a matter of minutes.

Operation Babysitter had been completed with literally seconds to spare when the doorbell rang. TWMPB went right to where you were playing on the floor, and I tried to explain how to work the TV (I soooo lost mom points there, taking more time to explain how to work the TV than how to work the child). Just before we walked out the door and she sat down to feed you, I snapped this picture of history in the making:


The 'HUH?' look you're sporting can be attributed to the lack of sleep and pure confusion as to what to do with all of the attention TWMPB has already poured upon you.

The evening went on without a hitch. Your dad and I had a great time on our group date with Jeff and Tamara & Brad and Ashlea, and when I texted TWMPB to let her know that we had ordered and that we should be home in a few hours, TWMPB rose to the level of TUMPB (The Universe's Most Perfect Babysitter) by responding with a picture text of the two of you playing dress up with your tutu and grinning from ear to ear. TUMPV kept you a happy camper up until a few minutes before we got home (your mom-dar must've gone off because somehow you sensed that it was almost time for us to be home). As soon as we walked into the door, your face broke out into an ear to ear grin and happy camper-dom resumed its normally scheduled programming.

In non-babysitting related news, you received more valentines than your father and I combined this year. Your very first valentine was a handmade one from your Great Grandma and Grandpa Pat, but you also raked in a light-up bear from Grandma Max and Grandpa Mike as well as a gift card to a bookstore from Nonni and Poppa. Speaking of books, being read to remains among your favorite things to do (seriously, you have an amazing attention span for an almost nine month old--you pay attentino to things longer than I do sometimes!).

Developmentally, you're still rolling all over the place, and while I may have half-joked about needing to babyproof the house last week, I'm not kidding anymore. Three times this afternoon I had to get you away from the pile of junk by the recliner that I've dubbed Mt. Saint Daddy (it's tons of scraps of paper and shipping stuff and just general stuff).

I should also mention that you've got quite the sense of humor and get quite the kick out of making me laugh. Lately, you've been cracking me up by blowing spittle all over the place as you blow raspberries at anyone who will look at you:



That picture is worth a million words. But, so's this one:



Have you EVER seen a baby that happy or that cute?!?!

Lovin you forever and ever my funny and cute little valentine,
your mama

Thursday, February 11, 2010

On a Roll

Dearest Sammie,

While I've got my students rockin' and rollin' in the production of Annie, you're doing some rolling of your own...all around the room, that is.

It started last Thursday, with you figuring out what to do with that blasted arm that always got in your way when you tried to roll back to front. By Saturday, you realized that if you roll over continuously, you're able to get places. As in, you no longer stay seated on your blanket anymore, content with whatever's in front of you; there's a whole world/house to explore and you're not wasting anytime discovering it.

Gulp. Let the baby proofing begin!

In the meantime, Annie is aaaa-lmost over. Six shows down, two to go. As of this time Saturday afternoon, I'm a free mama again. And I can't wait.

Of course, I did take some time away from taking pictures of the show to get a few of you and the cast:

(we're smack dab in the middle)


Here's another one with you trying on the Annie wig for size:


...and here the two of us are, hanging out in the theatre while the students changed:


Of course, I had a little bit of help getting your attention for the picture while your father snapped away with the camera:


It's been a bit hectic this past month with the show and all, but truthfully, I'm going to miss these guys when the show's over. These were the students who sang "Sammie, Sammie" to you and ooh'd and aaah'd over you whenver you joined us in rehearsal. They cheered for you when your adoption was finalized and made silly faces whenever you fussed. You may not realize it now (I wouldn't expect you to at 8 months of age, anyway), but you've captured the hearts of over 40 high school kids. Not bad, kiddo!

Loving you forever, my little pearl (line from the show),

Your mama

PS. The other night, after the show, you waited up for me and refused to go to bed until I got home. I walked in the door, picked you up, and gave you a bottle in your darkened nursery. Once you were finished, you fell asleep in my arms in a matter of seconds (literally). I held your snoring little body in my arms for a good twenty minutes, smiling from ear to ear the whole time. Truly the best parenting moment to date!

PPS. Valentine's Day is coming up and we haven't been able to find someone in the family who's not celebrating with their own significant other, so you're going to have your first "real" baby sitter ever: Breanna, the girl who's playing Annie! Pictures to come soon...

Thursday, February 4, 2010

Annie is HERE!

Dearest Sammie,

Because being a new mom wasn't enough, I decided to go all kinds of crazy this year and produce the school's biggest show to date: Annie. I'll be the first to admit it: doing a MAJ-AH show with a HUUUGE cast and an insane list of costumes and props WITH animals and children was not my brightest moment.

As a result of this unfortunate timing choice, I've spent the past three weeks *living* in the school's theatre and trying to get the cast and crew up to snuff in time for opening night. While there were times that the rehearsals actually scared me a bit and made me wonder whether Annie would be the one production that didn't meet our expectations, I can honestly say that when the curtains opened last night, we had a good show.

Of course, you were with us every step of the way. The students saw how excited I was when we finalized your adoption in December and transferred those feelings into the show when Annie's adoption is finalized. When you came to rehearsals, as I mentioned earlier, they sang to you. Last night, when Warbucks and Annie sang about how something was missing in their lives before they met each other, I found myself getting a little teary eyed thinking about how *you* were the something that was missing in mine and daddy's life.

I'd break out into cyber song but frankly, even my cyber singing is bad so I'll refrain.

What I will leave you with are these lovely mother-daughter pictures from after the schools' rallies last week. Yes, darlin, we ARE sporting matching show shirts...because that's how we roll around here.








...and of course, you hammed it up a little bit by showing us your old man face:



Love you lots my little Sammie,
your mommy

Thursday, January 28, 2010

She TALKS!

Dearest Sammie,

Forget the nonsensical chitter-chatter that you've been spewing out (much to our delight) these past few months: you're using words. Well, more specifically, you're using a word: "Mamma."

You said it for the first time last Friday (January 22) as I changed your diaper. I've been campaigning for your first word to be "Mamma" by saying it constantly whenever we get to spend time together. So, there I was, changing your diaper repeating "mamamamamama" over and over again, and you looked at me square in the eye and said "Ma-ma."

I wasn't sure if I was hearing things, so I repeated my stream of mamas and waited for you to do a repeat performance...and you did!

Ok, so your father is fully convinced that you're either saying "La la" or "Na na" but you and I both know what you're saying, and there's no two buts about it: it's "Mama." Each time you look at me (and the dog, the chair, the fan, the book, the dad) and say "Mama" my heart gets a little bigger and I squeal a little louder.

Love ya darlin,

Your MAMA

Thursday, January 21, 2010

2/3 of the way to a Year: 8 Months!

Dearest Sammie,

As of this morning, you traded in being a wee lil' seven month old for being a not-so-wee eight month old. Daddy celebrated the momentous occasion with you by taking you to Denny's so the two of you could share a Grand Slam. Apparently, the hash browns and pancakes were a hit and you partook in quite a few nibbles in between squeals of glee.

Speaking of squeals, you've found your voice. As in, yelling and exclaiming joy at the top of your lungs ranks among your new favorite things to do. This is particularly amusing when you combine it with your own version of "singing," which you're apt to do whenever the radio's on in the car or you find a toy particularly exciting.

The one thing that's not your favorite thing to do hasn't changed since you were two months old: the dreaded tummy time. Apparently, when the doctors-that-be put their heads together and told all parents that putting babies down on their back was best for sleeping, they neglected to take into consideration that they'd created a new monster in the millions of mothers now pulling their hair out because their babies are refusing to lay stomach down for playtime. Regardless, I continue to put you down because I'm sensing that another milestone is around the corner: crawling. So far, we've made progress in the daily tummy time ritual...if you consider progress not immediately rolling over onto your back.

While my hair may be getting thinner as I pull it out in anxiety, your wavy locks continue to get thicker and longer. From the time you were born, one of the first things people said (after "how cute she is!") was "look at all that hair!" Secretly, I've been hoping that your hair would continue to grow longer so that you'd be modeling pigtails by your first birthday. I didn't think we'd be able to reach this personal (and totally nonsensical) goal when your crowning glory started to be less---um---full of glory four months ago. As you started to spend more time sitting up and not lying on your back, the bald spot on the back of your head filled in while the hair on the top and front continued to get longer and longer.

So long, that last Friday I dared to do what I'd been wanting to do for the past eight months: I parted your hair down the middle and put two pigtails on either side of your head...four months ahead of schedule! Granted, it'll take a while for the back of your hair to grow long enough to go in the rubber bands and the hair that does make it to the rubber bands is rather, um, "spiky," but cuteness can still be found in spades:



I've got this picture as my desktop on my school computer now. All day long, when I've got a moment, I stare at it and think of just what a gosh-darned cute, loud, and spunky baby you are.

Loving you more and more,
your mommy